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<\/p>\nFresh starts are calling, and motivational speaker Candice Singh Engelbrecht wants you to answer. She\u2019s here to remind us that being a WOW-man isn\u2019t about perfection \u2026 it\u2019s about purpose.<\/p>\n
As we step into a new year, Candice Singh Engelbrecht shares her secrets to healing, confidence, and \u2026 in the spirit of Valentine\u2019s month \u2026 unapologetic self-love. And for her, it doesn\u2019t always mean looking like your best self. Sometimes, it\u2019s messy buns, oversized hoodies, zero makeup, and no plans. \u2018And that\u2019s perfectly fine,\u2019 she says with a laugh.<\/p>\n
What does matter though, is healing, healing, healing! And it\u2019s the single most important lesson life has taught her.<\/p>\n
\u2018No matter how deep the wounds, or who might have caused them, we all have the strength to rebuild and become stronger. True healing happens when we rise above our challenges, learn from our struggles, and build confidence, resilience, and authenticity. That\u2019s when we reclaim our power.\u2019<\/p>\n
Candice knows this journey all too well. That\u2019s why she founded Be the Voice GBV Foundation. An organisation focused on education, awareness, and lasting change to combat Gender-Based Violence. The foundation\u2019s slogan, Breaking Chains, Building Voices says it all.<\/p>\n
Growing up in a community where GBV was normalised, Candice felt compelled to challenge the status quo. What began as a simple social media awareness campaign soon blossomed into a full-fledged foundation making a tangible difference.<\/p>\n
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Like many of us, her most transformative era came during the pandemic. \u2018Covid made me stop and reflect. I realised life is too short to stay stuck in fear. I had to work on myself, process past traumas, and start walking boldly in my purpose. And that\u2019s when I knew I wanted the same (and so much more) for others, too.\u2019<\/p>\n
Her biggest takeaway was that self-love and healing aren\u2019t linear. \u2018Challenges can feel overwhelming, and I\u2019ve definitely had my moments of defeat. But I\u2019ve learned to focus on prayer, solutions, and tapping into my inner strength. Processing emotions fully, taking small steps, and surrounding myself with supportive people have been my go-to strategies.\u2019<\/p>\n
And that\u2019s exactly what she hopes to teach others. Candice\u2019s ultimate message for women is simple \u2026 no one is perfect. And that\u2019s okay.<\/p>\n
\u2018It\u2019s time to embrace the confident, unapologetic version of yourself. Your journey is yours, and there\u2019s so much power in owning your story. Now is the time. This is your cue!\u2019<\/p>\n
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At home, she swaps the stage for comfy pyjamas, a good book, and coffee. She loves spending time with her husband, Trevor and children, Shelby and Enzo. Movie nights,
\nroad trips, hikes and creamy garlic pasta (her signature dish!) are what defines the Engelbrechts. But Candice is also an advocate for solitude, as she always keeps a few moments for herself, just to breathe and recharge \u2026 because balance, right?<\/p>\n
For now, Candice is focused on expanding her foundation and podcast, planning more speaking engagements, and launching mentorship programs to help young women step into their purpose.<\/p>\n
And while she believes in moderation for most things, she says there\u2019s one exception \u2026 self-love. \u2018You can never have too much of that!<\/p>\n
\u2018Remember \u2026 always be kind. You never know what someone else is going through, and a little kindness can go a long way.\u2019<\/p>\n
This year, why not take a page from Candice\u2019s book? Show yourself some love. Lean into your healing. And step boldly into your purpose. Because you, too, can be a WOW-man.<\/p>\n
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\nFirstly, by reading a book, taking a walk, or just having a quiet moment to yourself. Secondly, taking a break from your busy schedule and just breathe. (Rest is self-care too). Lastly, (and everyone will agree with me) having an at-home spa day. Pamper yourself with a relaxing bath, your favourite skincare treatments, and soothing music.<\/p>\n
\nWomen have the incredible superpower of multitasking with grace and balancing multiple roles. Above all, women have the power to create life, not just in the physical sense, but in how women nurture dreams, relationships, and communities.<\/p>\n
\nStart the year with a clear intention. Know what you want and why you want it. Embrace your uniqueness. Don\u2019t conform to what others think you should be or do. Don\u2019t be afraid to fail. Every failure is a lesson and a step toward greatness.<\/p>\n
\nMotivational content, BMW cars and of course, fashion.<\/p>\n
\nIt\u2019s all about pampering and relaxation. It starts with washing and blowing out my hair, followed by my favourite skincare routine and doing my nails. Watching Netflix and, treating myself by ordering in food. It\u2019s my perfect way to recharge.<\/p>\n
\nBesides coffee and chocolate, it\u2019s doing charity work. Whether it\u2019s volunteering, speaking at events, or mentoring young women. Giving back and making a positive impact fills my heart and reminds me why I do what I do.<\/p>\n
\nHands down, chocolate. I can\u2019t resist a good chocolate. Especially after a long day. It\u2019s my little reward and comfort.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"