Creating the ideal playdate for your child and their friend/s
Playdates are an excellent way for your child to enhance their social skills. They provide opportunities to practise key behaviours like taking turns, sharing, and engaging in conversation. Additionally, playdates encourage problem-solving and decision-making.
Your little one will learn how to negotiate and resolve minor disagreements in a way that makes both sides satisfied. As a result, their self-confidence will grow, and they’ll gain valuable insights into both themselves and their friends. Most importantly, playdates are fun and help your child build stronger, more meaningful friendships through shared experiences.
What to consider when planning the perfect playdate:
For children aged 5 to 7, a two-hour playdate with time for a snack is ideal. Many playdates happen after school, and a two-hour duration ensures your child still has their evening free and isn’t too tired the next day.
Agree on the food beforehand – will it be a snack or a meal? Playdates often involve a meal, so it’s important to check with the other parent about any allergies or dietary restrictions. Keep the food simple and popular.
Avoid inviting too many children at once, especially if your child isn’t used to playdates. This can lead to one child feeling left out and may require more intervention from you to ensure everyone gets along. It’s simpler to invite just one friend, allowing your child to focus on them.
Avoid screens during playdates. This brings a great opportunity for your child to socialise and learn how to interact with others, which can’t happen if both children are focused on screens and in their own worlds.
Let them enjoy themselves! Avoid constantly overseeing their every move; instead, be available to guide them if needed. It’s helpful to have a backup activity ready for moments when your child feels bored or lacks direction. Activities like drawing with sidewalk chalk, decorating cookies, or creating a marble maze are enjoyable options they can do together.
Compiled by Clement Matroos Source: www.twinkl.co.za
