From the sugarcane fields of Etete to the fashion world of Cape Town, Ntandoyesizwe Mhlongo is using his platform to challenge outdated stereotypes and inspire the next generation.
With his striking looks and deep sense of purpose, Ntandoyesizwe is not your average model. Raised in a township on the Dolphin Coast, he’s gone from awkward teen to international model and, most recently, Mr South Africa finalist. But it’s his passion for mental health advocacy that truly sets him apart.
What was life like for you growing up?
I was brought up by an army of powerful women. My grandmother worked hard as a domestic worker in Ballito to raise my mother, who went on to break generational cycles by going to college. Growing up, our house was always filled with relatives and strangers who had experienced abuse, financial hardship and other challenges. My mother instilled in me the values of selflessness and service. I was always sharing my toys and clothes with others.
How did you first get into modelling?
I’ve loved art and fashion for as long as I can remember. I was the only 12-year-old in my neighbourhood watching the Met Gala, fashion documentaries and reading the latest issues of Vogue and Get It magazine!
As an awkward teenager who was constantly bullied, I never imagined I’d become a model. But in 2021, encouraged by my best friend, I decided to take a leap of faith and send out applications to modelling agencies. When Twenty Model Management signed me, I felt undeserving at first. But I reminded myself of my purpose: to represent every young man who has ever felt underrepresented.
What has modelling taught you?
To stay true to yourself. In an industry that constantly evolves, you have to find a balance between staying authentic and embracing change.
What does becoming a finalist for Mr South Africa mean to you?
It means I have a national platform to speak about issues close to my heart. I want to use my reign to raise awareness around mental health in young men.
Even if I don’t win, just being in this space will inspire young men from townships to believe they belong – and that they can achieve their dreams.
You’ve chosen to focus on mental health among young men. Why is this issue so personal and important to you?
Growing up, I was often told “indoda ayikhali” – meaning “a man doesn’t cry” – whenever I expressed emotion. This phrase suppressed emotions that didn’t fit society’s image of masculinity.
While I had a supportive family, many of my peers didn’t. I saw some neglect their mental health, which led to substance abuse, teenage parenthood, crime, or even becoming abusers.
I believe one way to combat South Africa’s gender-based violence pandemic is to understand why some men lose their sense of empathy. It starts with how we raise our boys.
What kind of impact do you hope to make through the Mr South Africa platform?
Male pageantry has evolved. It’s no longer just about muscles – it’s a platform for young men to launch careers and advocate for social issues.
To be part of a legacy of young men who stand for youth and women’s empowerment would be impact enough for me. I can’t wait for the young boys in my neighbourhood to see me representing them on a national stage. I hope it inspires them to chase their dreams, no matter how unrealistic they may seem.
What are your biggest dreams for the future?
I want to launch a school meal programme that provides breakfast and lunch for children in underprivileged schools and communities in Stanger.
I hope to host seminars where young men can express themselves in a safe and non-judgemental space.
Career-wise, I’d love to pursue acting and eventually win a South African Film and Television Award. Later on, I want to step behind the scenes as a fashion creative director and a film director.
Details: IG: @ntandoyesizwe8
Just for fun
What’s one thing people would be surprised to know about you?
How addicted I am to history documentaries!
Fashion must-have: what’s always in your wardrobe?
Anyone who knows me knows I love wearing baggy jeans or trousers.
Favourite local spot on the Dolphin Coast?
I honestly can’t choose one; we have so many amazing places here. From Crocodile Creek, to the beautiful Salt Rock beaches, Rain Farm and the iconic restaurants at Ballito Lifestyle Centre – they’re all special.
