“After spending a full year as a mom to a teenage boy, I’ve come to realise raising a teen is a mix of challenges, growth and wonderful learning moments.” Says dietitian Mbali Mapholi, who offers these tips to help your teen adopt healthy habits
“As parents, we play a crucial role in guiding them towards routines that not only improve their well-being in the moment, but set the stage for a healthy future.” Here’s how you can help your teen build healthy habits that are achievable, sustainable, and empowering.
Start with achievable goals
Teens thrive when they feel a sense of control and accomplishment. They need to understand it’s about progress not perfection. Rather than overwhelming them with big, abstract resolutions, work with your teen to set realistic, actionable goals. These could include:
- Healthy hydration e.g. drinking a glass of water or a cup of homemade Laager Rooibos iced tea with every meal.
- Limiting screen time and stepping away from devices at least one to two hours before bed.
- Stretching for five to 15 minutes every hour if using screens or studying.
Make physical activity fun
The key to physical activity is helping your teen find movement they enjoy. Whether it’s soccer, skateboarding, swimming, dancing or hiking, encourage activities that make them feel good, relieve stress and build confidence. Focus on the joy of movement rather than fitness or weight goals.
Be a role model
Your habits set the tone for your household, and teens learn far more from what they see than from what they’re told. If you want them to limit screen time before bed and you’re glued to your phone, they may push back. Show them what healthy living looks like by:
- Preparing balanced meals and involving them. Even something as simple as asking for their opinion on which protein to include for dinner can make them feel more invested.
- Participating in activities they also enjoy such as a hike or sports. I have committed to working out at 5am with my son at least four times a week to support him and it’s a win-win.
- Practicing stress management techniques like mindfulness, journaling or prayer, to stay present and calm.
Create a healthy home environment
Your home environment plays a huge role in shaping healthy habits, so stock your kitchen with nutritious, teen-friendly snacks like fresh fruit, nuts, whole-grain crackers, low-sugar health bars, frozen fruit for smoothies, popcorn and yoghurt.
Try to make mealtimes relaxed and inclusive and rather than lecturing, focus on positive messaging that highlights the benefits of eating foods that fuel their energy and make them feel good. Dinner time should be a space for connection and catch-ups, not conflict. If conversations become tense, consider setting aside a different time for sharing one-on-one.
Encourage restful sleep
Sleep is essential for your teen’s physical and mental health, yet can be often overlooked when school demands or late-night gaming keeps them up. Help them develop a consistent bedtime routine by:
- Encouraging screen-free time at least one to two hours before bed.
- Suggesting calm pre-bed activities like reading, playing cards as a family or sipping Laager Rooibos tea.
- Setting a regular bedtime and wake-up schedule, even on weekends, to reinforce a healthy sleep cycle.
Celebrate their wins
Teens thrive on positive reinforcement, so celebrate their progress no matter how small. Whether they stuck to their goals for a week, or tried a new activity, acknowledge their effort and let them know you’re proud. Instead of rewarding achievements with food, celebrate with a fun, healthy meal or a shared experience like a movie night.
Keep the conversation open
Teens value autonomy, so empower them to take ownership of their habits while offering the guidance and support they need. Check in regularly to see how they’re feeling about their goals. Ask open-ended questions like:
- What’s been working for you so far?
- Is there something you’d like to adjust or try next?
- How can I support you better?
- What can we do to keep our family meals on track?
“The teen stage is one that many parents dread, but this is a crucial developmental stage for our kids where we can build trust and habits that set them up for a healthy and balanced start to adulthood,” commented Candice Sessions, Laager marketing manager.
“Incorporating a healthy beverage such as Laager Rooibos is an easy way to boost your teen’s health simply and effectively. From improved heart health, digestion and sleep, to the many benefits of antioxidants, Laager Rooibos tea has lasting health effects for all ages. It can also be enjoyed as a homemade iced tea during these warmer summer months!”
Details: Find out more about Laager Rooibos and access many healthy recipes, advice and tips at joekels.co.za or via @LaagerRooibosTea on Facebook and Instagram.
